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The Love in Our Hearts

Lê Thanh Liêm

 
 

“HMDH2001 Urgent!” was the subject of anh chị Lập-Phượng’s  e-mail from Allentown, Pennsylvania. Họp mặt Đồng Hành 2001 is like a family reunion for all Đồng Hành members across America, Canada, and Europe.  By God’s grace, họp mặt will take place in the summer, and the northeast region will be our host.  Anh chị Lập-Phượng volunteered to take care of registration, and this year, more people registered earlier than in the years past...much more than we had anticipated. 

When Ban Phục Vụ of the Northeast Region met in April to plan for this event, Quang had predicted that at least 120 members will register.  I thought he was idealistic; hence, I did not believe him.  Now, just three weeks away, registration is approaching 140.  No problem, I thought.  After all, the more, the merrier.  Then Hoàng sent me an email: he had miscalculated; the retreat center’s maximum capacity is 120 people.  Uh-oh.

Ping! Ping!?Ping!  My Inbox kept flashing “new messages.”  E-mails flew in from anh chị Lập-Phượng, Quang, cha Long, Hường, Clara, Hoàng, anh chị An-Trâm offering solutions to avoid closing the registration and turning people away.  How about opening homes of folks in Allentown to house the overflow?   What about meals? What about transportation?  And so on and so forth were our concerns.  We decided to temporarily hold the registration to regroup.  The next day, anh chị Lập-Phượng announced that there were four homes available, one with a large “finished basement” that might hold a few dozen youths.  Registration will reopen, and with more “relief efforts,” we may be able to accommodate about forty more people.  Goodness, Đồng Hành gathering might actually have 240 attendants.  Yikes! I thought.  That would really be awesome.

I sat at my desk reading and sending e-mails, and contemplating on the passion that anh chị Lập-Phượng and the folks in Allentown have for các anh chị em across the land.  It was just a beautiful thing, this love they carry in their hearts.

They were ready to open their hearts and homes to house complete strangers.  What initially seemed an impossible task has become possible because they desire to be IN LOVE WITH GOD.  That love was their foundation, their core, and was the force that binds Đồng Hành together for over 24 years, spanning across cultures and continents and two generations, going on its third. 

I started to think about Đồng Hành and how much it has done for me.  I thought of chú Nhuận in Virginia.  He recently passed away this Easter Sunday after battling cancer for seven years.  I can never forget his hugging me during mass at Họp Mặt vùng Đông Bắc twelve years ago.  Then, I was a stranger to him and to Đồng Hành, but his embrace was full of love.  That họp mặt changed my life significantly.  I was awed to witness such a wonderful community.  There was something different about these people, I told myself.  Two days later when I left the retreat center in Elverson, Pennsylvania, I firmly believed that heaven exists, and that it is like this community called Đồng Hành.  It was the LOVE that people carry in their hearts.

As years went by, by God’s will and grace, I got involved more with Đồng Hành.  I volunteered to work on Đồng Hành magazine, and I discovered that it was a treasure.  Báo is not a preaching ground of any religious orders or groups of lay people.  Báo is a medium for ordinary people in Đồng Hành to share the grace they received, to be witnesses of Christ for others so that their joy can be complete.

I also got involved in organizing retreats for my groups, and I discovered that Jesus still walks this earth.  He still wears sandals and wanders in airports to catch the red-eye flights to save a few dollars for people who receive His Good News.  He drives long distances in a tiny car and lodges at a chain “motel” called Rest Area.  He sleeps in different beds each weekend and anticipates his next meal, wherever and whenever that may be.  He spends the few dollars He has to carry out His mission without worrying about who will pay Him back.  He listens to the pain.  He consoles all who cries for help.  He shares the walks and invites Himself to be a companion just like He did 2000 years ago on the road to Emmaus.  Yes!  I see Jesus in cha Thành, cha Nhi, cha Trí, cha Minh, cha Hùng, cha Long, cha Tuấn, cha Tước,  cha Toàn, cha Liêm, and many more “Jesus” out there whom I have not met.  I know they carry the LOVE in their hearts.

I had opportunities to work with các anh chị in EXCO (Executive Council), and together we are a fun and loving bunch, though probably disorganized, too, in a few pairs of critical eyes.  But that does not matter because Đồng Hành is not a business or an organization, but is a community of ordinary Catholics who share a desire to be IN LOVE WITH CHRIST.  This is the same community of people who sing at the top of their lungs and with conviction, “Lạy Chúa, xin hăy nhận lấy, tất cả những ǵ con có và làm chủ.  Take, Lord, and receive all I have and call my own.  Whatever I have or hold, you have given me.  Give me only your love and grace and I am rich enough and ask for nothing more” (from the Prayer of St. Ignatius).

Last year, anh Hào in Montreal asked me, “Why are you sticking with Đồng Hành?”  And I replied without hesitation, “For you, anh Hào.  This is why.”

 In my daily life, I desire for all of us to walk the earth with Jesus and to pray each day that we carry MORE of the LOVE in our hearts.  I am blissful that I found Đồng Hành.  More accurately, I am blessed that Đồng Hành found me.  God, I desire to do as much as I can with Đồng Hành so that others will discover the bliss of carrying the LOVE in our hearts.